Hub just turned 40, it’s pretty exciting! A group of Hub’s college roommates came together to celebrate this milestone with him and a birthday buddy.
There was a table covered with photos, some of Hub and Birthday Buddy’s 20th birthday party, some of college friends backpacking together or dressed crazy for one theme party or another.
It’s a bit surreal to think that my babies are closer in age to me, in those pictures, than I am.
I felt a little bit, “you may find yourself, behind the wheel of a large automobile…”
“And you may ask yourself-Well…How did I get here?”
I guess it started with meeting my husband,
I was a freshman in college, when I met Hub.
We were involved in the same campus ministry and I ended up moving into a house a couple doors down from him the next year. We both had tons of roomies, Hub had already dated about a quarter of mine. When we started hanging out a lot, I decided that a D.T.R. was a good idea, you know, the conversation where you Define The Relationship:
that way, things are not awkward at all.
We were good friends, and I was still looking for excitement and romance. Like a lot of nineteen year old girls, I overlooked cute guys down the street who were dependable, nice guys and continued to search out the kind of guy who just maybe… becomes Darth Vader in the next movie…. or is a vampire, perfect!
At some point I ran across a list of ideal husband traits that I’d jotted in the back of a journal. I love making lists like that and, in a surprising turn of events, Hub matched everything that I’d written… to a tee. I took another look at Hub and realized that I was happier spending time with him than I was pursuing actual interesting boys!
After going back to the helpful reading material in our house…
I knew just what to do, old-school stalking. Just know where they’ll be and pop out of the bushes, make sure to look really nice and act cool. I must have nailed it, because… eventually, I wore him down.
Now we have about 15 years of married life in the rear-view of that large automobile. Saying yes was one of the best decisions that I ever made. It’s not always a Christian Romance Novel, but it’s pretty great!
Happy Birthday Hub! Thanks for being so awesome!